I Was Caught in a Holding Pattern
There are times in our lives when there is not a clear answer…we seek out something, and we’re not sure exactly what it is.
In my life, I’m drawn to change. I’m drawn to take action and make things happen when it’s time.
Often times, we get caught up in patterns. Patterns can be healthy, but they can also become a “safe space” and stop us from reaching out for change and our potential.
I like safe spaces…they’re easy.
Growth only comes from change though, and I felt it was time for me to move forward. I’ve been in a holding pattern for awhile now. I’m making changes, because I’m ready to move and grow. It can be scary, and it can be hard, but in growth comes the ability to see things in a new light.
This week, I decided to do something different. It wasn’t about anybody but myself….it was about my own personal growth. That can be hard, because sometimes we want to take things personally and feel that we had an impact…that we were the reason, that we must have done something, anything to have caused a reaction.
Hopefully our actions, and how we’ve treated people over the last few years is enough for others to know your spirit and intentions. No guarantees though…one wrong move, and you’re judged for that moment, rather than the things you’ve done previously.
Did someone cause a reaction?
Nope…it was time for me to grow and rely on myself to make something happen…time for change. With no change, there is stagnancy. I’m excited to see what the next year holds for me, but I couldn’t get there without propelling myself to do things differently…
Are you caught in a holding pattern?


